How Much Would You Pay Someone to Not Watch Your Kids?

9/13/12 - By Alina Adams

As a mom who started letting her own nine-year-old son take the city bus home by himself in fourth grade (and received quite a bit of flack for it from other parents), I've been a longtime fan of Lenore Skenazy, the blogger behind Free Range Kids who gained notoriety for doing the same. For years, Skenazy has encouraged NYC parents to let their kids get out and run around by themselves—and now she's suggesting parents pay for the privilege.

This week, Skenazy launched a series of unsupervised playdates for kids. For $350, she won't watch your kids as they romp around Ancient Playground in Central Park one Wednesday a week after school through November 7. How's that for a bargain? Can you hear the outraged cries from where you are?

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On her site, I Won't Supervise Your Kids, Skenazy explains, "The whole idea of this 'class' is for kids to have a chance to do what we did: Play, on their own. This is not only fun, it’s formative—especially when it’s a bunch of children of different ages." Boys and girls ages 8 to 18 are welcome to participate, and in addition to paying the $350 fee, parents are asked to sign a waiver absolving Skenazy of "everything."

Skenazy figures that since parents pay for classes, why shouldn't they pay for her program? After all, plunking down real cash money means you're making a commitment and guarantees that Skenazy and her cause will get lots of media attention in a way a free event never would, which she blatantly admits is the purpose of the fee.

Do we love the stunt factor here? Not really. It's distracting and potentially brings the wrong kind of attention to an important issue. But we wholeheartedly agree that it's a negative turn in our culture that letting kids play outdoors without an adult hovering over them is now considered bad parenting. Instead of worrying about whether our kids will be snatched by strangers (unlikely), we should be more concerned about the childhood obesity epidemic and the fact that kids are literally forgetting how to play! Plus we have to let them off the leash sometime... I'm just not sure I'd pay for it.

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About the Author

Alina Adams

Alina Adams - NYC Writer

Alina was born in the former Soviet Union, spent her teen years in San Francisco, and came to New York City to work for ABC Daytime and ABC Sports. She spent her pre-marriage/pre-kid years as a figure-skating researcher and producer for the U.S. and World Championships, the 1998 Olympics in Nagano and various professional shows.

After learning that international travel and resentful toddlers don’t mix, she switched to PGP Productions and its soap operas As the World Turns and Guiding Light, where she wrote New York Times best-selling tie-in books and developed interactive properties like AnotherWorldToday.com.

The birth of her third child (and the process of enrolling her two older kids into NYC schools—a full-time job in itself!) convinced Alina that she was not, in fact, Superwoman, and prompted her to leave TV and turn to writing books, including romance novels (Counterpoint: An Interactive Family Saga, When a Man Loves a Woman), figure-skating mysteries (Murder on Ice, On Thin Ice) and nonfiction (Soap Opera 451: A Time Capsule of Daytime Drama’s Greatest Moments).

In addition to contributing to Mommy Poppins, Alina blogs for Jewish parenting site Kveller.com and is in the process of turning her previously published backlist into enhanced e-books with multimedia features like audio, video and more. Follow her exhaustive and exhausting efforts to become a Mommy Media Mogul (is that a thing? If it isn’t, it really should be) at AlinaAdams.com and on Google+